Continuing…
3. Creepy. Once I had a guy who opened our online conversation by asking me what is my greatest fear. Yeah like I’m going to tell that to a complete stranger. When I refused to tell him, he closed our communication citing my “inability to open up emotionally.
4. Using you a Plan B. Some dating sites' systems are able to indicate if someone has read the email you sent them yet. If someone has read it but only responds three weeks later, then you’re likely just being kept as a backup in the event his other options don't work out.
5. Using you as Plan C/D/E. Same thing if he called you a few hours before his company’s Christmas party, needing a date. I once had a guy I dated the year before call me at 5:30 pm Valentine’s Day asking to have dinner together. He must have been going down his phone list and eventually hit my name. Sorry, I already got all dolled up for other plans with my friends. No way in hell was I going to drop my friends for him.
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