I’ve been thinking up a few more examples of Substance over Form:
1. Sometimes, after a break-up, couples seem to spend even more time together. Instead of “going out,” they are now “hanging out” as friends. Not that men and women cannot be friends, but people often lie to themselves about the true status of where things stand.
2. If he keeps saying that he likes you, but something keeps comes up to prevent him from calling you up after a date, or being on time for a date, or showing up at the date at all, then something’s not right. Listen to the real underlying core message, not the excuses.
3. If he’s treating you like crap, then no matter what he says, he’s treating you like crap.
4. Some women live with a guy and kid themselves that he’ll propose in no time. If he acts like a commitmentphobic, thinks like a commitmentphobic, then he’s a commitmentphobic, never mind what his ad campaign said.
(continued in my next post...)
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Very true!
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Thanks for posting!