Signaling: More Bad Signs to Avoid – Later Dates/Relationship/Marriage Part 1 of 3

Now onto bad signs in later dates/relationship/marriage:

1.    Discounted flowers. He gives you discounted flowers, from the grocery store, bought right before closing.

2.   Letting themselves go. If he/she started letting themself go even before marriage and kids, it will only go downhill from there. It’s not a matter of being shallow. Unless there’s some medical condition at play, the health condition of one’s body is often a reflection of their personality and view in life.

3.   Kicking and Screaming. If a guy obviously doesn’t want to be with you and was going about it in a passive aggressive kind of way (like being late all the time, being rude, etc.) then don’t be with him, even if his mother simply LOVES you.

4.   “I’ll talk to you January 2.” If he never has time for you during the holidays, he might very well be married or in a serious relationship. His mama could be sending his official girlfriend home with a fruitcake.

5.   If he constantly places more importance on his friends than you. Not to say that he should not have a life outside of your relationship, but if he dashes out the door every time the phone rings, there’s a problem.

(continued in my next post...)